Everyone has sexual fantasies, and that’s a good thing—they can take regular ol’ sex into straight-up OMG amazing territory. Apart from being like an X-rated On Demand movie that makes anything possible in your own mind, fantasies are also interesting when you want to get a peek into what really makes a guy tick. We reached out to real men for the no-holds-barred truth when it comes to the absolute hottest fantasies they usually keep private. Take a look at their responses, and file them away as inspiration for a night when you want to spice things up a bit.
“My fantasy starts with a good friend I’ve known for a while but never hooked up with. One night we’re out at dinner, and we bump into her sexy cougar of a boss. Her boss is tall, in her early 40s, and has a banging body. After a few drinks, we all go back to my apartment, where my friend goes in for a kiss while her boss is out of the room. For me, there’s something really sexy about seeing a girl only as a friend and within minutes having that switch turned. We’re a little worried when her boss comes back and sees us making out on the couch, but that fear soon turns into excitement as her boss takes off her jacket. After some wine, we make our way into the bedroom, where my friend and her boss take off their clothes and start kissing. At some point, her boss, who has some experience with threesomes, brings me in. I first have sex with my friend while her boss looks on approvingly. While I’m recovering, the two of them go at it, and after a while, I join in again. Her boss leaves, and the next day my friend and I have the best morning sex imaginable.” —Sam L.
“A fantasy isn’t really about a situation that builds to a moment. It’s about a moment that happens unexpectedly. I like the idea of a sexy maid or maybe a hot nurse or teacher. The sex is followed by some good food. Fantasy over.” —Winston C.
“I’m gonna have to go with sex during winter hiking and skiing. You climb a mountain with an ax and spikes and tons of warm gear and ski down. At night, you stay in a tent that by morning is buried in snow. I’ve always thought it would be so sexy to have to share warmth to survive and end up having passionate sex. It wouldn’t be the hottest—you’d be dirty, sweaty, and cold all at once. And you wouldn’t be able to be naked or comfortable, but both of you would be so into it that you wouldn’t care.” —Nathaniel Z.
“I would have to say I like imagining myself having lesbian sex with my wife. Mostly because the idea of what it feels like to be the opposite sex during the act of sex is a turn on to me. It’s probably a grass-is-greener concept. I would feel too guilty and not get off if I imagined someone else other than my wife (physical form being unimportant, just as long as it’s her mind inhabiting a female form). It’s just interesting to imagine body-swap scenarios. According to Freud, I should be pretty crazy.” —Dave R.
“I have this really hot law school professor who’s around 50 years old. There’s something about her that’s tough but still so sexy. My friends and I have even talked about how attractive she is. She also happens to be a lesbian. I sometimes think about what it would be like to hook up with her and her girlfriend. It’s both weird and great to see her in class now.” —Zach A.
“I’ve never actually experienced role-playing, but I sometimes like the idea of a dominant woman. During sex, I actually prefer a woman to be on top. I find that during sex if I imagine that a woman is indifferent to my feelings, I’m more turned on. I almost want her to selfishly seek her own pleasure, and it makes me feel good to know that I’ve helped to provide that in any way I can. I also like going down on a woman. I’ve heard some guys say they don’t like doing that, and I’m not sure why. I had a girlfriend once who would even pull my hair a little when I did that, and she’d even put her feet on my back. Those subtle gestures of selfish pleasure were sexy as hell to me, and I can’t help but incorporate those into my fantasies now.” —Andrew M.