Beauty is highly subjective. Beauty can’t be or shouldn’t be held hostage to the single criteria. When anybody utters the word “beauty”, a beautiful face or looks comes to the mind. The concept of beauty is different for different people. Beauty shouldn’t be equated only in terms of looks. It‘s actually a combination of few things such as looks, intelligence, sense of humor, sensitivity and status.
Good looks can be a factor, but it’s not as important as you think. The studies have found that women typically choose good-looking guys for flings, not long-term relationships.
A sense of humor is important to women. Scientists have found it makes men seem more intelligent.
For long relationships, women tend to prefer compassionate men who are kind and do good deeds.
How women can be attracted in a positive way?
1. Has a Great Sense Of Humor – A man who has good sense of humor and has the intelligence to turn serious matters with lightheartedness through laughter is rare and well timed.
2. Dressed Sharply – We know that the clothes make an immense impact on our overall image and the perceptions we throw. We all perceive and judge people based on their appearance when we first see them. First impressions are invariably long lasting.
3. Communicate Actively – Communication is all about exchanging of ideas, needs, and desires without getting too academic. It’s true that women talk more than men. So, we need to listen more than we speak and what we say should appear authentic and genuine.
4. A Great smile and A Confident Self – Research shows that smiling is the simplest, cheapest and shortest way to convey your feeling attractively. People having smile are felt as healthy, open and trustworthy. Women are more likely to be interested in guys who smile, in a way that displays confidence too.
5. Be Adventurous & Spontaneous – Women love guys who aren’t afraid of trying new things. If you’re able to throw a monkey wrench in that perception, your attractiveness will be sky-rocketed.
6. Be Vulnerable – We may feel proud to have manly approach but the truth is that we have feelings just like women. They also need to see and experience that you are comfortable being open with them sometimes and allowing her to see your vulnerability will increase trust. It gives them the confidence that you trust her with the deep and dark places in your life. Not to be tried at the beginning of the relationship.
7. Man Of Style – You mayn’t be the best-dressed man in the room, but it is critical that you pay attention to your appearance. Style goes beyond clothes and traits such as Hygiene, Fragrance, Grooming and Communication will make you more attractive.
Imagine a situation: You are at a beach party with friends and one attractive blonde keeps looking at you. You wonder “Why is she looking at you,” well, she may be trying to figure out if there is more to you than just a pretty face.
Once women fall for your looks, they will observe you closely to learn more about you.
There are a list behaviors and qualities you can signal to an outside observer…
· Make others laugh – SENSE OF HUMOR
· Have friends – LIKABILITY
· Being recognized by people with high social status – SOCIAL STATUS
· Reacting strongly when someone tries to take advantage of you – SELF-RESPECT
· Try to be the center of attention – CONFIDENCE
· Moving slowly and taking up space (strong body language) – POWER
· Have the intention to mingle with attractive women – DESIRE
· Treating people you have no interest in with respect – GOOD HEART